Home Instead® CAREGiver of the Month Charlotte entered her first day with a dementia client with a bit of nervousness. “How would it go?” “Would he like me? “Would he remember me?” Charlotte admitted to all of those feelings, saying: “He had severe dementia, so I was worried how I would handle the situation.”
But Charlotte also said: “I went there with a neutral mind. When I arrived, the family was very helpful and very welcoming. When I started assisting the client, I found it easy to work with him. From our very first moment together, I gave him respect and freedom.”
Of course, there were challenges, just as there are with nearly every client.
“When we did some things, such as changing his clothes, it’d take us nearly an hour. Then he’d forget he had changed his clothes and would remove them, thinking they were dirty. I was softly reminding him often that he had changed his clothes. We started working on techniques for changing his clothes so we wouldn’t take a lot of time doing it,” Charlotte said. “For a week, things were better and smoothly done.”
Then came a most memorable day. “When my shift was done and I said my goodbyes to him, he told me, ‘No, don’t go home. Stay here with me,’ ” Charlotte recalled.
She added: “My client’s words gave me a sense of appreciation that it was a job well done. At that moment, it felt so good. That also gave me a boost of additional motivation to awake in the morning and energetically go to someone who needs care and companionship. There are a lot of Home Instead client stories, but this is the story that touched my heart most.”
Helping vulnerable adults is nothing new for Charlotte. “Before coming to Canada,” she said, “I had experiences that were like being a professional caregiver because I was preparing in my home country of Rwanda to be a nurse. I was working as an unlicensed nurse with supervision, and about half of that work was providing caregiving. I wasn’t registered yet and was waiting to take my nursing exam, but then it happened that I got an opportunity to come to Canada.”
Family caregiving also is a strong part of Charlotte’s résumé. “My family caregiving experience consists of helping my parents, especially my father,” Charlotte explained. “When I graduated and was living with parents, my dad had diabetes. As a result, I was the one who did everything he needed, from his medication to his nutrition. I learned everything that was needed for him to improve his health. Since he was capable man, I didn’t have to do much once I got him into a self-care routine. But the little things I had to do, I did them steadfastly and consistently.”
Charlotte, who has been with Home Instead of Richmond Hill-Vaughan for three months, found Home Instead through her Ontario-area school, Evergreen College. Charlotte described the process: “Home Instead sent a flyer to the college, which advertised that they needed CAREGivers and noted that they possessed a Labour Market Impact Assessment document (LMIA). That is a required document so Home Instead can hire foreign workers.”
During that time, Charlotte was seeking a work permit on her own because she was attending a private college. “For that fact, I wouldn’t have gotten a Post-Graduate Work Permit (PGWP), so when my school posted that Home Instead flyer, I immediately applied. I didn’t get a CAREGiver position at first, but I called again, and the process went smoothly,” she explained.
“Thank God I was able to get the opportunity to have another chance to work in the Canadian workforce. It was not an easy journey to join Home Instead. I felt at first I had no hope that I would be taken. But here I am, employed as a Home Instead CAREGiver.”
In her short time with Home Instead, Charlotte noted she likes the experience while also learning the different ways to enjoy the work. “Sometimes it’s not easy,” Charlotte said, “but a little push helps, and having a positive mind has always been beneficial for me. Another big lift comes from praying before I meet my clients. Praying has given me an energy to keep moving.”