“It was an amazing venture.”
That’s what CAREGiver of the Month Yvonne called one caregiving situation with Home Instead® of Newmarket. Yvonne also could have called it “an amazing journey” with the multiplicity of twists and turns she gladly made to win over a client.
The journey started when the client’s son called Yvonne and honestly shared with her that his dad “is old, grumpy and difficult to deal with.” Frankly, it sounded like a familiar theme to Yvonne and not a troublesome warning for rough sailing ahead.
The unfailingly compassionate Yvonne, who always wears a warm smile and has an uplifting personality, understood. It was no big deal. She and other CAREGivers have encountered their fair share of challenges. Basically, nothing’s too big for Yvonne to overcome. Revealing her secret to caregiving success, Yvonne said: “For my part, I treated the client with empathy, patience and respect. As a result, I was able to make him feel at home.”
As a result, Yvonne’s cordial personality won over the client and his family, and they reciprocated. “They gave me the chance to sincerely feel as though I am part of their family and not a mere hired worker,” she said.
Yvonne added: “Initially when I went in, my client didn’t open up with me. But, in time, he spoke happily to me. There were occasions when people came around to visit, and he would tell them, ‘Yvonne is a good friend,’ and that alone gave me some fulfillment that my presence had made a difference and that’s what I went in for.”
Yvonne’s impactful ability to bond with clients and their families while creating lasting and warm relationships has not been lost on the Home Instead staff. While announcing Yvonne had been selected as CAREGiver of the Month for March, Recruitment and Engagement Coordinator Jennifer Joseph said: “Thank you so much, Yvonne, for all the hard work you do, as it does not go unnoticed. Yvonne, each and every day, you display Home Instead’s guiding principles of ‘Build Trust, Take the Lead and Share Your Heart.’ ”
Following an online job search, Yvonne found Home Instead and joined the award-winning franchise, co-owned by Brenda Enright and Greg Bechard, two months ago. “This is my first job in Canada, but I had my maiden professional caregiver experience back home for a few
months,” Yvonne recalled. “Caring for the aged comes with an incredible experience. I had never previously tried this as a full-time endeavor. I remember back home that my father-in-law suffered heart problems and an auntie suffered from a stroke, and I offered to care for them because they needed someone to help. I was a family caregiver.”
Yvonne pointed out: “With that background and after the resourceful training by Home Instead, I felt more confident and accepted my first assignment. My client was a perfect fit for me. Lives of the aged are often lonely, and that’s the reason I offered to be there. He saw me as family and I was committed to giving my all with regard to the needed help to make him feel the warmth of companionship and being OK.”
Making a philosophical observation that always proves to be true but is seldom considered by younger generations, Yvonne offered: “At the end of it all (life’s walk), we will also cross the path of their age brackets and will expect the same humane support from others. Thanks to the Home Instead management for giving me the opportunity to serve the elderly.”
A friend asked Yvonne what she liked most about her position at a Home Instead CAREGiver. There was no blanket statement, so after careful consideration, Yvonne said: “First of all, Home Instead gives you the opportunity to choose suitable shifts. So, there is flexibility. Second, I love the feeling of being there for someone who, under normal life conditions, could be more functional just like myself. But that person has begun to experience ‘a new normal’ because of the challenges of illness and disabilities. I provide the hope that such people can be loved and find companionship.”